Charity Shop Shopping

It is funny how when we were younger (and profoundly less worldly) we looked upon charity shops as somewhere tainted to shop. I recall people sneering at others who were found to have shopped there, often called ‘skanks’. My parents were not overly wealthy and so I was often dressed in charity shop garments. It was, during my school days, my dark secret.

I am quite the shopper but dont think I simply walk into the high street chain stores to find my garments. I go first to the charity shops. I learnt pretty quickly on that some of the most wonderful garments show up in these places. I tend to go to ones away from student towns as they are all to often already sold out of the ‘goodies’ I crave. I know so many vintage dealers/shops go to charity shops to buy their stock. They simply wack on their percentage and sell it you with a nice label of ‘vintage’. Who can blame them? I mean its business and there is a market. Admittedly not all do this.

Anyway I just wanted people to realise there are some awesome goodies to be found in charity shops…

Here are some of my purchases:

Faux pas? Double animal? I like it! My dress is vintage from my own Velvet Curtain Store. Boots are Office. Coat is River Island. Belt is vintage and the bag is from the Heart Foundation shop.

Dress: 60s £12 Belt: £2   both charity shop.

 

My actual vintage tea set, vase and jug. Bought for a tenner in charity shops this week.

My actual vintage tea set, vase and jug. Bought for a tenner in charity shops this week. Sadly my ex kept most of the tea set :(

Dress: 70s original £20.

Dress: 70s original £20.

dress: 70s original with rhinestone clasp. £2!!!

dress: 70s original with rhinestone clasp. £2!!!

I love charity shops. But be aware you will have to rifle to find the pretties!

My Photography

Who would have thought that little old me when I was handed a camera as a leaving present would become a paid photographer. Until recently I had used my swanky camera to take pretty mundane images. Nothing fancy but determined to improve myself, I started to really look at images that inspired me and use them as goals to achieve.

My own photography has really taken off. I have been booked in for two boudoir shoots already and some of my work has been published both here and stateside so I am beyond proud. I should really start creating a website for it perhaps? Probably not as ideally I want to keep it under the Khandie Khisses banner…anyway here are some latest self portraits and work I have done.

All copyrighted mind!

If you want to book your own shoot please contact me directly x info(at)KhandieKhisses(dot)com

Time To Stop The Diet

Its been a long time coming but I am now done. I am done with dieting. It is time to stop the dieting and enjoy all the hard work I have done.

When I first started this weightloss it was a natural side effect of having a broken heart but as time went along, the weight loss became a recovery process for me. Now I have reached the end of my journey.

I recently learnt my ex married the former student of mine less than 6 months after we split and I wish them entirely and wholly an amazing life together. I know now I am more amazing alone than I was with him or having them in my lives. Its odd when you see an ex and smile inwardly. Lucky escapes are few and far between and I dont regret a single thing I have done.

The weightloss was a good way to cope with being lost as it gave me focus. With each pound that slipped away I felt like I was becoming more complete.

Sadly I also felt I lost some of my identity as I was so used to being the ‘fat chick’ in my friendship circle and on the stage. Now I am not. I had to really evaluate how I saw myself and learn to enjoy my body again. I have to say I am still working on this as I have spent so long in the bigger skin.

Now I am stopping the dieting. I am going to keep up the exercise and maintain my shape. I am proud of the loss but more proud of where the journey led me to. I am more content and happy in my heart than I have been in many years.

To all of you struggling, take control of one aspect. Play with it and dont let it confine you or define you. It is merely a focus point. Enjoy yourselves.

Weightloss ends. 26 April 2013

Weightloss ends. 26 April 2013

Alone in the Dark

Often we say we feel alone but actually many of us arent. Even in our darkest of moments we have those who look after us and watch over. Whilst we may not always notice them or sense their presence,you are never really alone. I promise.